The trip was good. It was great hanging out with friends, staying busy, and not thinking about my situation as much as I do when I'm back here in the "real" world.

I went pretty dark. Didn't initiate any calls or texts. I had a pretty significant fall hiking, though, and got fairly banged up. I was actually really fortunate that I wasn't killed or seriously injured (was bouncing down hill, out of control, banging off rocks). Somehow just ended up with a bunch of bruises and scrapes. Anyway, I told my D when we talked that night, and she told my W, and W thought I was more seriously hurt than I was and called me. I thought about not answering when I saw her name on my phone, but I did pick it up. She seemed concerned, which was nice, I guess.

Same situation here as always when I got home. She's making more of an effort not to backslide and show me affection. Cordial roommates, another four days closer to divorce.


Me: 46
W: 44
Married: 17
Together 21
D13; S10
BD: 03.03.15 (Not attracted to you)
Almost 2 years trying, alone, to save marriage
Status now: Divorced (effective 06.13.17)