I don't know if I'm the best person to respond to you but I'll share my experience and observations for what they are worth. Please apply some grains of salt to this as I am by no means an expert.
My Guy gets pretty moody but not when we are together. Ever. However, I get distant and emotional as our time together draws to a close because being with him is like being in a fairy tale and I don't want to pick my responsibilities back up. But I can articulate that when I am called on it.
The full-on texting and phoning when you are apart sounds a little bit like love-bombing to me. When you think of it that way is that how it resonates to you? If so -- does that indicate a reciprocal relationship that you both will grow from?
Sunny said on my thread that the purpose of dating is to determine if the person you are with is LTR/marriage material. Is the behavior you're experiencing something you want to live with always? I'll tell you from experience -- the problems you have 8 weeks in are going to be the problems you're coping with 8 years in. Are these problems you are willing to always live with?
What are you holding onto in this guy that is so special that he sends you back to DB 8 weeks in when you've been divorced six years? I can't tell from your original post. I know he's the first guy you've properly liked in years -- do you have any idea why that is? What is special about him?
I'm looking forward to hearing your answers.
Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15
