In a previous post, I mentioned being fairly confident that W had spent time w/ OM while I took Ss away on mini-vacation. I’m in a better place to deal with these covert manoeuvres now but one little thing bugged me about the last outing and it concerns a chemise/gown set I’d bought W some years ago. To my recollection she’s never worn it around me, maybe a poor style choice on my part Well, suddenly it appeared -probably used while W was away & not just for when she stayed over at SIL’s- got washed and then was put away rather quickly. I have a notion W will take & wear this next opportunity she gets to meet up w/ OM. Now what I would love to say is…
“I hope you’re not wearing that chemise & gown set I bought you years ago for OM!?” I would hope you’d show me & our marriage more respect than that.”
...feel this is one of those things I just vent here but should not utter to W ever.
Reflecting back to the separation discussion from a few days ago... W mentions she’s been thinking about what household items she wanted to take with her. Certain things have a connection to MIL and I completely understand, one request that threw me was for our crockery/dinner set!? All of this crockery was on our wedding list and bought by various/numerous people so I don’t see any sentimental connection to any one person, or is this W trying to incite a reaction from me?
Me 50, ExW 49 T21, M13+ S15, S13 BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY) Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts Oct-2016 W petitions for D Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed Jun-2018 D'd
Well, suddenly it appeared -