It's very hard to accept divorce for most men because we get screwed usually and I can see why men try to avoid divorce while women are the ones who file 80% of the time. The biggest loss is the kids, women get custody in 90% of the cases. In my case my wife got custody but I see the kids every weekend which means I have them 30% of the time, which is not too bad. The financial loss is huge as well. Men pay for child support and alimony in 90% of the cases as well and if they can't pay they go to jail. I was aware of all of that before I married and that's why I ended up marrying a woman who made 6 times more money than me. Marrying a poor woman is pure suicide! My child support is only $135 a month as a result and I received most assets as a "lump sump" alimony. I belong to the 3% of divorced men who received alimony, so my situation is pretty good. The system is to blame for screwing men so badly, and until men don't wake up to the reality and unite, nothing is going to change. Several things could be done to reduce the number of divorces like 1. Keep the government out of marriage completely or 2. Make it impossible to get divorced if there are children or 3. Give custody to men by default like they used to do during ancient Rome.
Right now the system is very bad and men are the victims. Hugs
