There is a reason that LD women make themselve so busy. 1) Sex is not important to them, therefore they never think to pu it on their schedule. 2) They love to be in the "Mommy" mode, they don't realize that they are supposed to be "Lovers" first. 3) They tend to be perfectionists. 4) They are looking for ANY excuse to not be sexual, therefore they fill up their lives with EVERYTHING possible. 5) LD women tend to want to fill thier lives with children things because they are in effect withdrawing from their marriages, kind of like when us guys withdraw by getting wrapped up in work, or doing buddy things.
In effect, she is making sure that there is a shortage of time to play, because she does not want to play! I know, my wife does the same thing. Michell even mentions it in her book. She says that LD women always seem to find a very important project that needs to get done immediately at about the same time that the spouses are getting ready for bed.
