NLW - After you posted on Bea's thread I landed here to see if you had an update. My H never filed for D but 2 years later we have all been discarded in a similar fashion.
As time passes their indifference still haunts me but it also reaffirms that H's crisis really didn't center on our marriage. Treating your grandchildren and children that way is not normal when people decide to leave because of marital issues.
Hope life is peaceful for you these days and you've been able to move forward. I am working on it but some days I feel like a snail. Your posts offered me such comfort and I'd like to thank you for sharing.
M:25 years at BD w/ 2 daughters BD: 5/14 Separated 6/14 - H moved cross country w/OW D Final 9/17
“I can be changed by what happens to me. But I refuse to be reduced by it.” ― Maya Angelou
