Cadet,

Absolutely!
I do not believe what she says and I even tell the kids not to worry too much about what mommy is saying because mommy is angry now but maybe she won't be angry anymore in a few years.
I really doubt that she knows what she wants right now and I have read that subconsciously women in MLC want a white knight who saves them and leads them the right way. I am going to be her white knight so that she doesn't have to look for a new one. I have firm believes, I am a mountain, I am a rock.