I told her several times in the past that I will not give up on the family and I will not put another woman in front of the kids. I even told her that in court in front of the judge.
My opinion is you should stop telling her in words this information. Speak with your ACTIONS, be a little mysterious. I am NOT telling you to date or try to change your viewpoint. Standing is not waiting it is NOT STILL. If you are going to be holding her position open for the rest of your life then you need to figure out how that life is going to look. Their are lots of people that never marry or get involved with others after a first marriage. They keep living their life though.
Originally Posted By: Cld
My wife told the kids a few times that "she doesn't want me to wait" but she also said that "girlfriends are bad" so I think that ultimately she will appreciate me for waiting.
She says that she doesn't want you waiting, two parts to this statement. #1 - IF she is in MLC do not believe anything she says. #2 - She wants you to be the bad guy and be the reason the marriage broke up, because she is already totally sure of her decision that she is DONE with the marriage. This may or may not be true however it is the way she feels right now.
