The divorce is good, don't try to fight it. I just signed the papers and it feels good, now I am not tied financially to her anymore and I am glad about it because she just bought a McMansion that I don't want to be liable for. Now I can only focus on the love relationship while the marriage was also a legal and financial relationship. I am talking about after the divorce when she finally realizes the mess that she caused to the children and to you. She will come back on her own at some point, you just have to believe that she will.
