Hey Cld - I appreciate the support but I think I'm in a much different place right now. I don't want to argue about it either really because we waste pages and pages about 'should you give up on your marriage or not'. The truth at least for me is that she's given up and it would be/has been unhealthy for me to try to hold on to that hope. If she changes her mind then so be it, but I'm not expecting her to and I'm not trying to change her mind.
All I want from the situation now is a quick and amicable divorce, and a fair financial and child custody settlement.
Me-45, W-37, T-10 yrs, M-9 yrs D -7 yrs, S-5 yrs BD-5/3/16, D filed 6/8/16