Hi Tim - That is just so strange (must have been to you, too) that she was so sexual with you before marriage, but turned it off once you'd made the relationship official. I'm sure you've asked her where she got that idea (from her own mother, maybe?) - what did she say??? H and I had a pretty ho-hum sexual courtship, with his excuse being he'd spice it up after we got married. Of course, that didn't exactly pan out either.
I'm so sorry you are going through all this, Tim. But I'll bet you do look like a new man with the beard shaved and all. Maybe tonight you could give her a wink and say, "Honey, how 'bout a bath?"
