Rose, you are right. I know you are right. I'm just growing weary of this. I may just tell him from now on, I am happy to listen but I'm not really going to get drawn in to these discussions unless he's willing to go to therapy with me. I see our issues as requiring external intervention at this point. Is that harsh?
Mombear,
I completely agree with you that some sort of external intervention would be helpful, but if the WH doesn't want marriage counseling or individual counseling, then it's just not going to work.
I've been through the experience; I begged my wife to go to our third, and unfortunately final, MC session. It just made things worse - far worse.
