Oh Zues, I would have hoped you knew me better than that. I don't think I've ever done anything out of spite. With everything WH has done to me, I have tried to consistently take the high road and treat him fairly.

What you call 'symbolic' may be what I call 'principled'. I don't know if I will ask to have anything changed from our property settlement agreement (although my new L seems to think I should), for me it's about making it clear that this D wasn't my choice. I told WH when we M that 'I marry once, and I marry for life, so please don't do this if you think that D will be an option down the road'. He was in complete agreement.

M 16 yrs, WH62, P54
3 adult blended kids
EA 11/13, BD1 6/14
PA fall 14, BD2 2/15
Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15
Separated 4/16
WH moved OW in 5/16
Divorced 6/15/17