First off, you're a lot stronger than you realize.
I am glad that the holiday went, mostly well.
What do you think of the threads that Cadet provided you to read? Any questions, do some things make sense?
I have to say the one thing I found REALLY interesting was the night he wanted to talk and you didn't. That sort of surprised me...most LBSers would give up a kidney to have that type of talk...any type of talk that started with an apology in fact. I find it interesting enough to wonder, is this how you guys normally talked before all this happened? Do both of you sort of shut each other down when the other felt the need to talk?
Well the holiday is over, and now as nice as it was, this is the real life. This is your norm.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
