This morning while I was I was walking I received an email from my lawyer saying that my child support will stay very low at $135 a month and that the mother of my children went to his office to sign the Divorce Judgement. Basically I am divorced now and absolutely nothing is changing in my mind, I am still 100% committed to the family, to my children and to their future. This is me, but I wonder how this is going to affect the mother of my children. Is she going to date guys, or maybe she already has? Is she going to introduce them to the children? Is she going to be more or less friendly towards me? Only time will tell. For now she still has a picture of all of us together on her Facebook and it has been only 8 months since Bomb Drop, the official start of her midlife crisis. I will do my best to stay like a rock, to be committed and to be patient. This Sunday we will start to see each other in person after 8 months to exchange the kids 3 times a week and I wonder how she is going to act. I still have the restraining order that we amended, and now I am allowed to text her only about exchanging the children and for emergencies. If everything goes well and she doesn’t try to renew it, the restraining order will expire January the 11th 2017.
