Trying to detach - part deux

[Cherry]

Some great advise from painter there. I read that and shall take it on board myself. Although I'm trying my best to do these things, I think I too am putting a lot of pressure on me to detach and beating myself up for grieving. But they are right, and you are right. We are grieving a lot, it's like we haven't had a chance to put it right.

I often think this process is more difficult than being widowed. As we are ultimately dealing with rejection too, which from the person you hold dearest, it kills.

It's a process, and so long as we keep doing something for us, we will hopefully get our minds into a better place.