Husband just told me he is moving out.

[Mombear]

Oh for goodness sake. I knew it was too good to be true!

Last night, he was huffing and puffing around the house, clearly out of sorts and annoyed. But of course when I asked him what was wrong he just said "nothing, I'm fine."

At bedtime, he said he felt very small and like everyone was against him, judging him. He said he felt like pretty much everyone in his life - his own parents, siblings, extended family, our neighbors, etc. think he's making a mistake and he's tired of feeling judged. Acknowledged that this isn't my fault, but did say that he can't help but feel resentful that everyone seems to be on my "side."

It wasn't an angry talk - we held hands as we were talking. He slept in the master bedroom again after the talk. But he's not coming to therapy with me today.

I don't know what this is - a setback? Nothing? All I know is that he needs to make a decision. He can't just stay here and neither work on reconciliation or work towards leaving. We've been doing that since the end of June. It is time to make a decision.

AAARRRGGGHHH!! So frustrated.