Hi Cherry, I wouldn't raise this with your H at all. I would take the high road, concentrate on your work and leave H to deal with his own messes. Who cares what anybody may think of you - you haven't done anything wrong except love a man who is struggling to commit to your M just now - hold your head up high. And if anyone takes it upon themselves to 'break the news' to you, you can tell them - thank you, sadly I am aware and H has chosen to file for D. I appreciate you telling me though....

JMHO of course lovely xx

T 13 M 7
Me 48 H 46
SS 15
BD 7.14 PA
D final 5.16 (H filed)

We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus