At this stage don't think I would mind W moving away -would give me some space to gather myself- just as long as Ss are left with me for the school week. Over the last 7-8yrs I've been the one using work flexi-time to cover nearly all AM/PM school runs & after school activities. I've also done some of the running around at the weekends. Since BD in Jan, I've felt like a single parent stepping up with more of the household chores too. So W can move & get this new life she's angling for and I'll stay local to schools/family/etc; expect very little opposition to that.
In some respects my situation resembles that of the WW/Nice-Guy scenario, if not for the events leading up W's MLC. So taking my 'b@lls in my hand' and being more assertive about what I will or will not do/accept/etc. is a part of me that I'm working on. However, have to be careful as sometimes I come across as aggressive, to an extent this led me down the NMO path.
Me 50, ExW 49 T21, M13+ S15, S13 BD #1: 25-Jan-2016 (EA confirmed & ILYBINILWY) Sept-2016 Mediated Sep. starts Oct-2016 W petitions for D Jan-2017 R w OM admitted/confirmed Jun-2018 D'd
and being more assertive about what I will or will not do/accept/etc. is a part of me that I'm working on. However, have to be careful as sometimes I come across as aggressive, to an extent this led me down the NMO path.