Cld has his own thread and I've copied and pasted his posting as well as a Rouky's and his response back to her on his thread. It's a topic that others may be interested in and since he posed the question, I thought it best to address it on his thread.
Many of Mr. Bond's threads, as well as other vets, have been purged over the years. The Board comes along at least once a year and purges the system of older threads. We went through a purge this time last year and many of us had to scramble to either save our threads or recreate them in order to have them remain here. So, if you can't locate all of Mr. Bond's threads, that is the reason, i.e., purging the system.
I just want to say that Mr. Bond came here, did the necessary work on himself and listened to the advice, suggestions, etc. that the posters offered up. He let go, dropped the rope and continued moving forward w/his life. He allowed his wife the time and space she needed and she eventually realized that Mr. Bond was not the problem.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
