Crisis is the current state that it is in. When people come out of it, they're changed. And I seriously wouldn't be quoting MWD if I were you. You just cherry pick the things you want to hear. Many of us who have succeeded in saving our marriages have tried to tell you that in order to do so, you need to be willing to open your mind. Which you show you're not willing to do so. Look at the starting dates of the people who have tried to help you and you very rudely and arrogantly dismissed them. Again, if you were this way with your wife, it's not difficult to see why she has no correspondence with you. Many posters who have tried to help you have done so also.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.