Caught up on your last few threads. My XWW is still very much like yours, altho i'm a new person. I've come up with a scale which might help you and alot of people on this forum...
Every person has 3 very bad traits
SELFISHNESS STUBBORNNESS REBELLIOUSNESS
Now, on a scale of 1-10 for each, you identify what the person is really like, their real personality. So, my XWW would get a 9/10 for selfish, a 10/10 for stubborn and a 9/10 for rebellious.
This would give her a score of 28/30. Everyone on this forum will find that their (in)significant other will hit a mark around this score.
If you rate yourself, as the LBS, you will probably hit around 15 out of 30.
So what do you do about their high score, well, you run! Never stay with anyone that does not care about you, themselves, or their kids. Just run!
Just cos things are going right, doesn't mean that they were always wrong.
