There is defiantly more to me than this

I am here

So what questions do I ask my IC on Friday I want this session to be about me rather than about the marriage

Me:48 W 41
M:18 T:26
2 D 18 & 4
2 S 17 & 13
Bomb: 20/7/2015 in house separation
D filed 06/17
Separate houses 10/17
D Final 29/12//17.