I'm sorry that you had to come back, Tex. So is your W still in the house right now? Are you separated within the house, or still together?
You say you are unmotivated, but it seems like you must be if you're back on here. Have you been getting help with depression?
Sorry so many questions, but it helps us know you better.
...Yes, she and I are still in the same house. She told me last week that she was on the edge of divorce. We said that we would discus it yesterday or today. Today she told me straight up that she wantede the divorce. That counseling would not change her mind when I brought up that option.
She had gained some weight over the last two years that we were married.. and has had a hard time losing it. She just told me that she has lost 8 pounds since she decided to consider divorce.. That she hasnt been eating the junk fiood like she was... probably emotional eating...
seems like the classic "happier with having a plan to escape" mentality.
But we still live together and share the same bed.. but we shall see how that goes... now that she a "made up her mind".
Still we will probably live in the same house, as we are in process of remodeling it.
I did go several times for counseling for ADD and depression, but the counselor said it was likely more ADD causing depression.. so she focused on that.. Still, I have not dealt with either all that much. Cant afford the ADD meds.. well, not until probably next month.
