And the way you answer or file for D should have absolutely nothing to do with WH, punishing/not punishing him, his opinions, or influencing his behavior. Period. It is a strategic decision that you need to make based on what will bring you the most favorable resolution for your long-term well-being and financial stability.


H: 44, Me: 45
Married: 20 y Together: 25 y
no kids
Walk away: 12/15
Asked for temp separation 12/25/15
PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had)
H filed for D 5/16