Mombear-- pretty amazing development. I had a similar turn of events in my M, where my WW/MLC went to therapy with me, but she bailed after two sessions. I'm envious of your story. I think finding a therapist w/ a good fit is difficult, so you were lucky.
I too often walk around feeling like I'm in a dream, a bad nightmare. There is just a surreal quality to it all, like, is this really happening. Just doesn't seem to fit with the reality I remember.
Your H admitting he is just running away from his problem is a huge step, I think!!!
Me: 50, MLC/WW 45 Young kids Nov 2015: BD1 Apr 2016: BD2 Jan 2017: W filed Feb 2017: D final