HalfTheMan & MLC-W

[Lifes Twists]

Speaking from my experience, you will get lots of advise. Some will say to give her what she wants. I don't recommend this. I say to fight to preserve what you have worked so hard to get. Preserve the home you have provided for your young sons. Some will tell you that to fight for this will be to further drive your wife away. I say she is already driven away from you. Standing up for yourself and your children is the only thing you can do at this point. I am not saying to be nasty to her, rather just strong and not bending on what is right for you and your boys. Fight to keep them in their school and familiar surroundings. If she chooses to move, that is her decision, but fight letting her move your sons as well.

There will be those who will tell you the system is rigged for the mother. I believe that is changing. I stood strong and had a good attorney who fought for me. I ended up with the house, the kids and no alimony. It took several years but was worth it. The interesting part was just 4 months after divorce was final she called me to talk. We are now slowly reconnecting and spending time together. I can't guarantee this will be the result for you, but at this point what do you have to loose.