MLC, WAW or WW?? Who really knows? Help...pls

[ROE]

Well the Holiday weekend is drawing to a close. As expected W has spent very little of Thais time at home. And when home she avoids me at all costs. It's tough on me but I am rolling with it. She spent Friday evening w/OM. On Saturday she was busy running but I'm certain that somewhere during the day she and OM connected somehow, I just try not to ask questions anymore. Sunday she spent the entire afternoon with him working on remodeling a home for a friend of ours. I'm sure that today will also include them finding yet another reason to get together. Detaching is terribly difficult. Sometimes I just can't take the disrespect any longer. even with small talk or if I offer to help her with something I am criticized or find myself wanting to defend myself somehow. But instead I take a deep breath and say nothing. Just walk away from the situation. Very frustrating. It's probably best that she avoids me anyway, even if with OM. Though that being a major problem for us. It is only forcing me to build a wall to protect myself from her behavior.

ROE