eric - I just found the Codependent No More online too - partial though, 1st three chapters. That will get me started, I am going to put a request in to the library tomorrow for whole thing.
Thanks all.
"There is no more important fight than the one for ourselves. Keep on winning." Ginger1, Read her newbies. BD: Feb '16 D: Mar '17 Piecing: Putting the self back together was my piecing. S6