I see that Blu stopped by Coly's thread and left a little advice on discontinuing the focus on the WH.
Please take heed to this. It is for your benefit. You are a firecracker from all tat I have learned about you in your story and I understand the Latina woman spunk and temperment and all as I have some close friends of the similar temperament, but you are not in a good emotional or physical condition to keep allowing that to fuel you.
You deserve better, and you can have better by keeping the focus squarely on you. Re watch Guy Winchs' emotional first aid ted talk. You have the power and control to take him out of your mind with a concentrated focus.
My challenge to you is to go all week with out a post that references him or what you think he is thinking or doing or how poorly he is behaving. Venting has it's place, but the daily venting leads to rumination and that is no bueno for you right now.
I love this quote and thought you may be able to read and ponder on it.
“A man's mind may be likened to a garden, which may be intelligently cultivated or allowed to run wild; but whether cultivated or neglected, it must, and will, bring forth. If no useful seeds are put into it, then an abundance of useless weed seeds will fall therein, and will continue to produce their kind.” James Allen
(((((Cherry)))))
Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017
It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine
