Just catching up with your sitch and thought I would say hey!
I really admire your strength, especially after hearing the a confirmed by someone else. My wh is in utter denial about his ea. even though I have seen texts and been told by a few people about it- yet hearing it sends me into a bit of a rage every time. The A business at work could go either way really. And her announcement that she wants a quick divorce seems quite script (my wh's reaction is the exact same- "it's something I need to do" is his response). A little mind reading here, but I'm guessing that their reaction of wanting a quickie d is just to relieve some of the feelings of guilt that they have.
Well done on the to do list. It does $uck that we are even put into this situation with a D that we don't want; but knowing where we stand legally and having a plan in place does give us the reassurance and a bit of control that we are prepared.
Keep up the good work. The thing with a's is it hopefully means that they will be slapped with the cold hard reality of what they have done at some point.
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16
