She reminds me of someone who is trying to keep tabs on her husband. Maybe she thinks you have met someone and having an affair? I know my xh use to call me on the days he worked just before he flew the coop. This was not normal behavior for him the entire time we were married. It was almost like he was hoping to catch me doing something or maybe he figured I was spying on him. Whatever they think, you can best bet they are looking over their shoulders to ensure that we aren't spying on them.

I wouldn't worry too much about her piecing things together. You were doing your normal stuff and keeping your side of the street clean.

Your completed listing is a good one. Now, you just have to make sure you don't leave anything lying around for her to find when she returns home.

Enjoy the rest of the holiday.

Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to.
The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.