Me and Midlife Wife and Midlife

[Surfer]

Oh, forgot a point. Your W's sickness is probably due to a poor immune system due to stress, nothing more, nothing less. I don't know but that is what my WW went through. Does she look exhausted, tired around the eyes and lethargic?

Could be the same. It's her journey. Don't think too much about it, or feel sorry for her, just observe her.

Surfer.