I could summarise that book so easily. But it's a must read IMHO. It's gets to the core of the emotional response position and allied with Mindfulness - there's lots of free apps out there (Headspace etc) you will see how they work in'Chimping out' and what you can do to detach from your feelings...as such.
I hope you do read it, and look at the free headspace app. It will help - I hope. It did me.
Keep going, it gets so much easier.
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