You've tried to help her and you've been basically smacked down. It's evident that she does not want your help. Whatever is going w/her is her problem to deal with now. You can't help her. She has to want to get better and evidently she's happy being stuck in the barrel of health issues.
Huddy, please just leave her be. Nothing you say or do right now will make her see that she needs help. No matter if she's a MLCer, a WAW, menopausal or depression...you can't help her. Just like an addict or alcoholic, they have to help themselves and that generally means hitting bottom.
Huddy, keep the focus on you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
