Well he has officially fully moved out. He came, we made polite small talk, and he took his stuff. No discussing of the future, us, or how he is doing since he left.
And especially no tears -- which I'm proud of.

I even put my best face forward and tried to look the best I could -- without over doing it. This imposter is not the man I married. He is not the person I spent the last 14 or so years with. This imposter slowly invaded and it breaks my heart.

Do they ever come back? Or is this the way he will be from now on. I know I should not want someone that does not want me, but I do.


Me: 42
Him: 45
Daughter: 13
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Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years
BD: 8/15/16
Moved out: 8/26/16