I think all the legal stuff is a ruse to get you away from her. I know it's amazing, but in their mind, the LBS should leave the house and pitch up somewhere else. My W wanted me to do that and I went to a hotel for a week, but, it was my house and I wasn't being forced anywhere.
OK, so this order sounds a bit extreme. Does she have any kind of proof? Is there any cause for a judge to grant this order? Be careful of her new 'friend', as she may be spurring her on and may provide 'witness' evidence. Yeah, this is gonna cost a bit, but you have got to protect yourself. Keep your temper at bay as well.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015