I don't believe that it is against DB'ing to protect yourself legally from anything she does. I know that everyone here will tell you to protect yourself and your children. I have been where you are and had to get legal orders removed in order to protect myself. Believe me when I say that it does not have a negative impact on your DB'ing. In fact it may have a more positive long term result. This does not mean to be nasty to her or try to cause her trouble. This just means to stand up for yourself and do what is legally and morally right. Be the best man and father you can be. Work on yourself and your relationship with your children. Always remember that there is only one person in this world that you can control and that is yourself.
Twisting on Life's Rope Me53 W53 M20 D21 D19 D16 BD 2-2013 D final 1-2015 _________________________ "Dream about tomorrow, Live for today, Learn from yesterday"