Definitely keep it there, then when he hopefully removes his head from his @ss you can show it to him.
I seriously think the problem with my wh is that he doesn't understand a m, he doesn't get the fact that it's not like it is in the movies, and that the lustful feeling wears off. But that's not my issue to work out, when he has the same problem over and over in his life- maybe then he will address it.
Been busy doing some organising of my clothes today, changing bedding etc. Wh managed to look after s for a whole 2 hours (s slept the entire time). So now going to have some fun with s for the afternoon, the rest of my to do list can go on hold for a while.
Had to communicate with him to ask about if s had eaten/slept etc. Managed to do this in a non "I want to tear your head off way", and he actually looked at me- this is a first in a while, you would think I was medusa and he feared turning to stone!
Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16