Originally Posted By: PacLove
Anyone else struggling with the long weekend? We used to always do things as a family this weekend, I've got D, but really miss W and shutter to think that she's likely spending it away with OM - hard to detach from these thoughts. Didn't sleep much last night.


No, to be honest. I have my son, that's all I need. If my W wants to spend this holiday with trash, that's on her. As you read, I offered my W time to spend with him Monday and she brushed it off like I was unloading a chore on her. Her loss. Create the memories with your child, be their parent. I work to show my boy the kind of love he used to get from his family. Case in point: About an hour ago he bumped his nose, it both scared him and it bled a little. She used to practically knock me out of the way to comfort him when he cried. I dropped everything, ran to him and he hugged me hard. smile


Me: 35 W: 32
S: 4
T: 6 M: 4
Physical Separation official: 5/21
Currently: DR/DBing, Focusing on me and son

Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.