You have to do whatever it takes to get the NMO struck from the system. Although you'll need to be sure to find out exactly what it states as she may have pulled the rabbit out of the hat and stated that you verbally and emotionally abused her and the only way to get relief from that behavior is to file a NMO. I am so sorry that this happened to you.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
