Hey Job, Friday night, I had dinner with husband, he was very calm and tendered, I did not pressure him and was as light, friendly as I could.
Soon we're going to celebrate moon festival, today I visit his mother(I haven't been to his mother's place for 5 months) my mother in law told me, they had dinner last night and husband fought with her, I don't know if it's as you described, the MLCer regress to where/the time they got stunted and is trying to work on himself...
My mother in law is not an easy-going woman, so in past years, I try not to be too closed with her(frankly I don't like her) he loves her elder son more, my husband was mistreated since he was born. There are the feeling of hatred between mother and son. That's not something I can help or fix, what do I do? Keep the distance (I prefer)