Tim, Well I think it's immature as well. I really believe she's not only ND but is totally out of touch with what sex is about. Yesterday she wore a pretty new pair of panties that I really liked but she complained that they were a little uncomfortable. At the end of the day, she just cut them up and binned them. When I said she could have just kept them for entertaining me, she looked at me as if she didn't have a clue what I meant. She seems to have no self-awareness of sexual intinct at all.
I also wonder if she doesn't use my desire as a controlling factor. She is quite controlling in many other ways, loves giving our orders and hates feeling that she's being told what to do. The other day, I asked her nicely if she would like to walk around the garden with me as it was a sunny afternoon and she suddenly exploded irrationally shouting "I hate people trying to force me to do things I don't want to do!" - the same reponse I get when I ask here if she feels like ML.
