Linda, I kind of NOT expected RT to “last” on her job… Yes… your poor XH… This is only the beginning. I’m glad your xh taking care of his health, even though I think that the fermented oatmeal is not going to hurt, haha. I have never had it, personally, so I don’t know what it smells like or tastes like. I do like the fermented cabbage and some other stuff, and I think they are great! You have to grow up eating these though. There are a lot of benefits. But, it doesn’t seem to be helping your xh’s condition.
I guess I missed something… Do you get weekly updates from your ex MIL? Are these about your xh’s health? This could be exhausting.
M:50 H:52 S28 (my S from previous marriage) M:17 + 3 BD: 06/12 S: 06/12 - H works in another state
Frankly I think fermented oatmeal is to be much encou raged
1. It increases brown stuff from Netherlands (leading to less time for libido activities. 2. Whilst it smells terrible it covers up the stink of infidelity 3. It can be used to protect against STDS, it puts one off 4. It may have a resale value, perhaps a business opportunity for a cottage industy of fermentation 5. It looks like mucus and probably tastes like it, saving on mucus making. Why make mucus when you can eat it. 6. It uses up the mountain of oatmeal we currently have as excess in the world 7. It clearly fosters America Russia relations in a very diplomatic way, eating the stuff once moulded is very diplomatic 8. It can be used in brick laying although you can't use it for foundations 9. It can be used as a poltice on boils but creates additional hazard leading to mega infecation 10. It bangs on the fridge door waiting to be let out 11. The need of it creates serious addiction issues, peeps is sneaking around in search of it 12. It cures ear wax, leading to better hearing but poorer comprehension
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I would actively encourage xWH to bath in the stuff, as it is so wonderful, hell use it to brush his teeth and fuel his car.
V
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
I love your posting. I about died laughing and there are some poor dumb fools in crisis that would believe all 12 points. LOL!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
Oh good Lord Vanilla I loved your post too! Holy cow! I must remember to let my ex know the nasty smelling stuff can be used for brick laying. Might come in handy for home repairs at his mother's house.
Bright, it's my ex who emails or texts me at least once a week. Occasionally i'll hear from him a couple of times the same day.
Sometimes I wonder what his wife thinks about that LOL.
How are you doing BF? I must catch up on your thread. Any talkof divorce from your husband?
Linda
Me 65, Ex 64 M 38 y 2 adult S, 4 G-Kids MLC 11/07 BD 12/09 D 3/14 Dating nice guy 7/14 Engaged to nice guy 12/17
OMG! I knew she wouldn't work that job very long. Maybe she needs to open up a diner that sells that nasty oatmeal! LOL!
Don't be surprised if your xh hits you up about moving in w/you. Nothing surprises me w/those two.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.