Thank you everyone! It has been really hard to not contact him, but I have succeeded for the moment. He comes tomorrow to pick up some furniture (had to rent a truck bc he can't haul anything in his corvette) and take our daughter for the rest of the long weekend.
I am going to try to be very pleasant and not angry. I have read through a lot of the links and I really appreciate all the information.
I have even went to open a new account and transfer in money to pay the bills -- since this is still my responsibility. Previously he stated he wanted to file for divorce next month, but we have not discussed that since he left. I also joined a local suport group, the gym, and went to see my GP last week do to not being able to sleep or eat.
Just trying to stay busy so I do not think about him. Nights are the worst since we were never apart (except for when I was in the hospital). Most of my adult life was spent with him. Next month would have been 17 years.
Me: 42 Him: 45 Daughter: 13 ____________________________________ Married 16 Years, Together 17 Years BD: 8/15/16 Moved out: 8/26/16
