Thank you! The encouragement is appreciated. I got pretty drunk last night not really on purpose I just kept drinking my IPAs and it caught up with me quicker than I was expecting so I think I was slightly hungover this morning and since alcohol is a depressant and kind of messed me up but after it wore off actually I was feeling pretty good and some relief. Spent the evening cleaning the kitchen up really nicely and fixing up the dining room where she's been packing all her boxes. I'm looking forward to having a cleaner house. I also spoke with a good buddy of mine and he is telling me that is a very bad idea to ever take her back because this pattern of behavior has been evident for many years with her and if she hasn't figured it out by this age she's probably not going to change anytime soon
