HI Amy.

Sorry you are here-

Yes Your H does sound very MLC
Sometimes the death of a parent will start the crises-and he has both parents pass
and the corvette also fits right in

None of us gave right up-
we practiced working on ourselves.
some LBS try different strategies to see if anything will work to bring H closer
work on creating a friendship with H
MLC can take 2-7 years for them to resolve,,
some will return or try to
sometimes its the LBS that moves on

But some things may help you and the transition of the M

learn about MLC
Detatch and let go
focus on yourself and your new life
take care of you,, eat, sleep rest pray (if you have a relationship with God)
work on yourself
validate and listen to him
Create new activities for you
Protect your assets
therapy individual and or group
be there for your Daughter
do not initiate relationship talks
Do not try to talk H into seeing he has a MLC
no snooping, or begging

Keep posting


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow