I remember the day my W moved out. She was very irriatable and the mood swings were unreal. From angry to a mess of tears in seconds back to angry. It was one of the hardest things I have ever been through saying goodbye to the woman I love. And i imagine it isn't easy for you either.
Everyone here preaches time. Give it time, you need time, she needs time. And I am just going to agree with them. Time is needed, the crappy part is no knows how much time and that's what sticks in your head. How long. It's different for everyone.
Our W like most of our S here need some kind of help however it's not our place to tell them. This is their journey and at some point they will see and hopefully seek the help they need.
Sometimes it may seem like she is handling this so well and it is easy, my advice is be yourself and wait. There may come a time where you get a glimpse of where they really are at in their head and it will surprise you. When that time comes you have to continue to be yourself,
You sound like you are handling today well so far and I know it isn't a easy day to handle. I was a mess no matter how hard I tried to keep composed.
Keep on keepin on friend
The person that you will spend the most time with in your life is yourself, so make yourself as interesting as possible.
