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Hi
I hear what your saying about the friendships that seem to be draining and the conversation goes negative..
I agree and although its hard to let go of people, Ive always noticed that as I evolve, my friendships seem to as well
Ive also noticed that even though a friendship seems like a good fit for a long time, suddenly- it starts feeling weird..I have that going on right now with a long time friend- we don't seem to connect anymore and Its hard to understand--
I guess we have to trust our gut and if we keep getting the same messages about a certain situation, we can take action
I don't believe in totally ending friendships, but maybe just keeping the door always open and moving on in another direction..less time spent with the old friend--much of the time it is mutual as they sense it too

Its hard to know if our H are in MLC or just unhappy..either way its probably unhappy with themselves, not that we didn't contribute to the demise of the M..But I think the success rate of 2nd M is less that the first and affairs even less

Take care and enjoy the long weekend!


married 14 years
H 42
bomb 2/07 IDLYA
D final 3 /09
M ow D ow