Rouky you sound low. I read somewhere that exit affairs and Mlc are different but to all intense and purposes an affair is an affair. Your husband chose to deal with his issues by cheating on you and your children....it is wrong. He has to live with his guilt.....not you.

With regards to the kids he sounds lime my h....thinking he has some sense of entitlement...he doesn't. He walked away, he chose to Disney dad and with that he lost certain privileges of being a proper father....chin up